Asian Brides
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At least the Asian mail order brides I have met are not drug addicts with 1,2,or 3 kids..?

Forget finding a good American woman when you are over 30 in USA. They gave woman freedom in America and that screwed most of them all up. The pill, messed up their brains. Then they went to drugs and became users.. Now, the way alot of them get their money is either by having babies with guys that have good jobs – or SSI… Ya know, when your like me, just a blue collar worker and of average looks I have found the dating pool of just full of LOSERS, with drug problems, domestic violence, and kids… This SUX! I’m so disappointed. Comments?
ME, you’re right….. It sucks, when I have to go to a foreign land and have to buy a wife. I pay and then hopefully cultivate a relation where love grows and blossoms. But, nice response. Typical MEAN American woman, no surprise there.
JP, right on the money!

I seek only women with no kids, or that don’t want kids. This means I find women that are of a higher class in their education, and have better confidence in themselves. Usually they are not into drugs. Well, at least they put up an image. Many are very insecure down inside. Honestly, I think it is the stress of American society.

I have been to China. Life is much more “kicked back” in China, so the stress level is much less. I assume this is true of Korea and Vietnam.

It is easy to find a woman there if you are a Westerner (I was not looking). Most of the men, whom are sent there by their employers, are educated, white collar, like me. This has led to a somewhat distorted view of American men. Many Chinese people think that every American is highly educated, carries a laptop, and so on. Even the average high school educated blue-collar worker is assumed to be a near genius, in mainland China. Don’t expect that in Hong-Kong, or anyplace else where they are used to dealing with Westerners.

You might find what you want in a “mail order” bride, but don’t count on it lasting. Once you bring her to the USA, she will find out that she can do better than you. Odds are this won’t happen until after you get her pregnant. She will divorce you, and hook up with some wealthier man, that can help her bring her whole family to the USA, within about 3 or 4 years.

I know a few guys that have done this. About half of them have experienced exactly what I pointed out above. Also the agencies will “doctor up” the photographs, so don’t expect her to look like she does in the pictures. You may actually be looking at a picture of her younger sister. It is not hard for her to lie about her age, or weather she has been married before.

Maybe you are just dating the wrong women. Most guys that complain about the quality of the women, they date, are looking for “arm candy”. How about finding a woman, that has a lot of the traits that you seek in your male friends? You know, similar hobbies, etc. Don’t get hooked up with impressing your male friends with how thin girlfriend is. It is a pretty good bet that if she is very thin she has a drug problem, unless she is a regular at the gym.

Amway, Impress your male friends by hooking up with a woman that is smarter than them, or who can whoop them at billiards, etc. I have too many friends that go around worried about their ego more than the quality of their date. They end up with some “high maintenance” “crystal banbi” that has no brains left.

If you still want a women form Asia, then hookup with an employer that will send you there for a few months. You can pick your bride that way.